Men Love the Chase

Men want to do the chasing and don't want to find a deer that has already been shot

Melanie, my friend, is exactly that kind of already-shot deer to me. She spots a guy at a club she likes. Hits on him, and she is as easy to read as an open book. He doesn't ask for her number - she asks for his. She has a man's number faster than a cocktail can be mixed.

She never takes my advice. In her eyes I have no clue. Women have become emancipated, she says, and all that advice belongs in the trash. She is right about that. A woman today takes what she needs and doesn't wait for a prince on a white horse to come around the corner.

Yet she is looking for a relationship, not a one-night stand. She wants to get married and start a family. That she won't get a relationship this way is something she truly hasn't understood. And she is probably a hopeless case.

A man wants to be a man: men want the chase

A man who wants a woman will take action on his own. He will court her and make an effort. He wants to spend his time with her and can wait until the first time they go to bed.

A man will treat a woman who is easy to get accordingly. He won't make her the mother of his children; after sex with the always-willing one, he will look for the right partner elsewhere. And her name won't be Melanie Kensington, but Anne-Marie Whitfield.

A woman should know how to get a man. She doesn't reply right away when he gets in touch. She doesn't jump at a date on the same or the next day, but only has time when she wants to, not whenever his schedule happens to allow it.

This is the preparation phase for a relationship. Later, once you're in the relationship, you can finally behave "normally." Before that, a certain amount of strategy is necessary, otherwise the man loses interest too quickly.

Men want the chase, and they still will in 100 years: be a kitten

Our friend Beatrice always says: "Be smart and be a kitten." Men don't like it when women come across as prickly and defensive at the start of getting to know each other. Be charming, be like a young kitten, and enchant the man. Let yourself be won over, and he will do anything for you.

Be hard for him to reach and show him that you are the goddess, the queen. Don't dress too provocatively for the first date. Play with your charms. But cover up the most important parts. Let him imagine, but don't show too much. Glow from within and he will be at your feet and will want only you.

You should become the goddess for him. So don't lie in front of him like a deer that has already been shot. Let him get out his bow and arrow and take careful aim. He can miss a few times. Then give him the feeling that, after a job well done, he has finally reached his goal. He will do anything for you! Absolutely!